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People say that hot and cold behavior is a sign of a guy not liking you? but there was a few guys who were hot and cold who ended up expressing interest later on. So is hot and cold always a sign they aren’t that interested or?
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Anonymous 2w

sign of disinterest, sign of immaturity, sign of emotional unavailability. could be multiple things

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Anonymous 2w

Either they’re not interested, or they’re extremely interested but they’re unwilling to risk losing you by acting consistently and openly. A lot of men have been taught (usually by heartbreak and losing someone) that playing mind games and keeping you up at night worrying and trying to figure him out is the only way to keep you interested. He doesn’t want you to see him as a safe option or golden retriever and get the ick. Or he just doesn’t like you. Only none way to find out. Sorry🫤

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Anonymous 2w

Nothing is always anything

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