
Either they’re not interested, or they’re extremely interested but they’re unwilling to risk losing you by acting consistently and openly. A lot of men have been taught (usually by heartbreak and losing someone) that playing mind games and keeping you up at night worrying and trying to figure him out is the only way to keep you interested. He doesn’t want you to see him as a safe option or golden retriever and get the ick. Or he just doesn’t like you. Only none way to find out. Sorry🫤