I don’t go to clubs often at all, but imho it’s a horrible place to find a good relationship. Go hiking or rock climbing or something. Better guys there for sure.

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No. A bar and club are probably the worst places to go if you want to find love; they are the explicit gathering places of horny intoxicated people with little forethought. If you want to meet a guy you’ll like, go to events for other things you enjoy, volunteer somewhere, a run club, etc.

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As a dude that does the same I’m commenting to see replies…

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If you do find love at a club, it will probably start from lust and later morph into something more. If you don’t want to go down that route, it’s probably not the best place to find what you’re looking for.

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Clubs are hard to meet people. Music is too loud and place is too crowded. Bars are much better. Men will tend to approach more at a bar. Especially because the intro can simply be: “can I buy you a drink?”

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apparently a girl posted on here that if you don’t get approached at a bar or club there’s something wrong with you and I haven’t stopped thinking about it

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