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How do I tell him that he’s too old for me? I should not have matched him
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Anonymous 6w

“Hey I was thinking and like I think we have just too much of an age difference for this to work out” or smth

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Anonymous 6w

Umm unmatch??

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Anonymous 6w

Just say you’re not interested. Ghosting without explanation is kinda mean, unless he’s abusive, threatening, or creepy.

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Anonymous 6w

Block him

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Anonymous 6w

Block the number and unmatch

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I have his number

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

He text

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Or you could tell him you’re making tinder creep content and thank him for participating. Say you’ll black out some of the number but you have to keep some for “the fans”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

He creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Then block him and run. He doesn’t know where you live, does he?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Then you can just block him. The more you contact him, the more he thinks about you. If you say you’re not interested and give a reason, he might try to argue or build resentment over being told he’s too old. If he’s creepy, safest option is to disappear from his life and be as invisible as possible. If you want to give him some courtesy, “I’m not interested” is all the info he needs.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

When I first started blocking people, I blocked the number to be sure I wouldn’t break no contact. Now I can trust myself not to open (in case read receipt glitches) or send texts. So I keep them unblocked and ghost. This is so that I can screenshot death threats if any are sent, and show them to police.

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Anonymous 6w

Did he fly over just to see you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

No

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Anonymous 6w

He wants me to fly to him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Probably best to tell him you’re not interested, and then either block or ghost. Definitely don’t fly over if he creeps you out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

That is a genius idea, and I will be using it in the future.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

It’s fast, quick, and makes people unhappy

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