Anonymous #8 16w

They*

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Anonymous #3 16w

this will never not be a weird thing to say tbh

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Anonymous #9 16w

Why? I’m attracted to girls of all races but race is a physical trait at the end of the day. People have preferences for other physical traits and nobody bats an eye

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Anonymous #2 16w

yeah but if he didn't like black girls then there was no need to answer this question. it's just weird to me to say it out loud like this, like even if they changed the race it still be weird.

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Anonymous #2 16w

also you can have preferences but this makes it seems like he requires his partners to not be black, which is mostly why it's weird.

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Anonymous inphochewated 16w

very much agree

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Anonymous #9 16w

It’s a yes or no question, sorry you didn’t like my answer

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Anonymous #3 16w

but you didn't even say yes or no. you said you wouldn't do neither. for some reason you felt the need to comment the fact you aren't attracted to black woman on a post about being attracted to black women. your entire presence in void/irrevelent and it's weird you wanted people to know that detail about yourself

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Anonymous #11 16w

there is also a difference between "i'm not attracted to you" and "i'm not attracted to your race"

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Anonymous #9 16w

You just repeated the same thing lol

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Anonymous #11 16w

not really

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Anonymous inphochewated 16w

Yes, but also race is more than just skin tone, it affects things like facial structure, hair type, body type, and that’s just physical, not even getting into racial subcultures. So yeah, it’s entirely possible that there are certain physical features someone might like or dislike that are more or less common with certain races.

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Anonymous inphochewated 16w

For example, if a guy is really into redheads, that’s gonna rule out most black women. The same way that if a woman really likes 8-inch dicks, that’s gonna rule out most white and Asian men.

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Anonymous #12 16w

8 inch dicks gonna rule out 98% the guys

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Anonymous #12 16w

having an 8 inch dick is NOT as common as being a ginger, also what woman are you talking too that have dick size preferences that they r vocalizing like this

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Anonymous #9 16w

I’m gonna take you focusing in on that and ignoring everything else as conceding that the rest of it is all essentially correct

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Anonymous #12 16w

Sure you have a point but it doesn't make it any less weird. Especially to say things like "i'm not attracted to this entire race" or whatever. Even using ur example you can be really into redheads but if you ruling out ppl who aren’t then that's not just a preference imo. It's a requirement.

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Anonymous #9 16w

I think you’re just taking general statements and treating them as too absolute. Like if someone says they’re not attracted to white girls, it just means that in their general experience they haven’t found white girls to be very attractive. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they’ve never found one single white girl attractive ever, nor that they never could in the future.

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Anonymous #9 16w

Also, no one is obligated to have feelings for anyone else to begin with. If some treats meeting their preferences as a requirement to even consider them as a partner.. so what, they’re welcome to? They can decline anyone for any reason they want and don’t owe anyone else an explanation.

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Anonymous #12 16w

sure they can it just makes them a shallow person. rejecting someone based off of their physical characteristics alone is a pretty shitty thing to do. to put that much value into something so arbitrary isn't the point of a relationship. what if the guy who is really into gingers marries one and her hair turns gray when she gets older. is he gonna divorce her bc she's no longer attractive to him? yeah he has a right to do that but it be pretty fucking dick move

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Anonymous #12 16w

well yeah that's why there is harm in making generalizations. if someone says they aren't attracted to an entire race of people then they are assuming that this entire race of people will look the same which is inherently racist. it's like when women say things like i hate all men, they are assuming all men are going to be abusive creeps. even if they made that generalization based on men they've met. still doesn't make it less sexist.

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Anonymous inphochewated 16w

Probably for the same reason why someone can find an entire demographic of people with the only unifying feature being their genitals completely unattractive. Not everyone is pansexual, and not everyone is attracted to people of all races or ethnicities, and that’s okay.

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Anonymous #14 16w

Except being queer is something you are born as, you aren't born only attracted to a certain race. Attraction is entirely different from sexual orientation. You don't have to be pansexual to find people of all races attractive that is tnot what that means. Also the entire premise of this post is abt people who DO find black girls attractive. The question is why do they only hook up with them private. You wouldn't hook up with someone if you weren't attracted to them

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Anonymous #9 16w

you guys can downvote me but that doesn't mean im wrong. there is literally no reason ro bring up your unattraction to black girls on this post, she didn't ask if you are attracted to black girls

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Anonymous #14 16w

It’s more the deep rooted reasons for that that bother me, especially when the source of repulsion is someone’s race. I rarely see someone say “oh I like all races but I just like pbht people more!” It’s usually “I just don’t like pbht people” and it’s almost always nonwhite people, especially darker people. On its own, I couldn’t care less. In the context of a society with Eurocentric beauty standards, it’s kinda hard to NOT call out.

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