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Would a man find it unattractive if I tell him he’s sexy in our first interaction? Like id say if just like that “you’re very sexy”
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Anonymous 22h

Might come off as wanting to hook up but if that’s what you want then I wouldn’t worry. Calling him cute however ehehehehshsiw when my date did that I couldn’t sleep that night

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Anonymous 1d

id ask if you really meant that in a future interaction

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Anonymous 1d

Very forward but I think that would be very attractive

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Anonymous 1d

Nah I’d have to hide my smile

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Anonymous 1d

Would you like being told that on the first date?

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Anonymous 23h

I think this definitely depends on the person but for me, it'd really depend on what our first interaction is like. In most cases, although I'd be flattered someone sees me this way, I think I'd also feel slightly uncomfortable if it comes out of the blue since we don't know each other very well. I usually only like having conversations like that with someone I know well

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Anonymous 1d

I’m prob in the minority, but I personally would not like that, I’d find it offputting/weird. Like idek you and you’re commenting on sexual stuff?

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Anonymous 21h

If I were you I would wait to say that. Later on if you guys go on a super casual date just look at him and say (casually) “You’re very sexy”. Bro will be flustered.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

See because I’ve had men tell me in the past that they get turned off when a woman is the one to approach them first and especially when they say something bold like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh that was to all of yall not just #3

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23h

I feel similarly, I think I'd be startled if someone I didn't know well talked to me like this

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