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From a guys prospective, if you’re taking it slow with a girl before making it official. What is your slow like timeline ? This guy is a date to marry type guy so doesn’t wanna be in a relationship until he feels confident about it.
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Anonymous 2w

Unless we were friends before, I ain’t making it official until I’ve known someone for at least like two months. I’ve made the mistake of rushing into a relationship and realizing later it wasn’t right, and that shit sucks

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Anonymous 2w

From first date to official, it’s usually around a year (for me) so that I can vet her. In the meantime, we’re still going on dates, enjoying each other, etc. Unfortunately not many girls make it that far as they reveal things about themselves that isn’t conducive to a relationship with me, which is why I wait.

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Anonymous 2w

Prospective

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Anonymous 2w

A yea of being official is usually good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

We didn’t know each other before. We talked for a month before dates , and then have went on 4 dates so far. So two months total. I know every guy is different but within the first 4 dates this guy hasn’t even hugged me. And it’s him being respectful. Do you think that part is weird as a guy? Or sounds normal

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