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tell me why all guys ever think about is sex. bc a guy i was talking to and want to just get to know as friends told me how he wanted to do me at my work in his car when he comes home next month?? like its giving bde and big ego
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Anonymous 11w

idk why so many are like this. but not everyone is. me and my ex were waiting for marriage actually, and I was fine with it

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Anonymous 11w

Really terrible generalization. There are plenty of guys out here that want nothing but to have a genuine relationship built on love, trust, and communication. And what that guy did is shitty, I totally agree. But you labeling an entire gender based off of one experience? Ask yourself if what you just asked was realistic or out of hurt

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Anonymous 11w

I usually think about history, guns, religion, and my hobbies. Sometimes I think about sex, but I try to shut it out. It can be quite challenging though. The moment I let it take the forefront of my thought I’ve already lost. The urge just builds and builds over many days until the urge is resolved (via “simulation.”) Then I’m just sad and ashamed. I try to fight the urge, but I’m too weak. Apologies for this rant. I don’t get to talk about this stuff… ever.

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Anonymous 11w

Wish I knew

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Anonymous 11w

Let’s face it, we’re all horny as fuck. Some men try to control/hide it, others not so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

like i havent even met the dude in person yet and hes already talking about sex?? like what??? i need to get to know u first sir. and even when i do i dont know what is going to happen?? you are taking things way too personal way too quickly.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

a lot of guys don’t actually wanna date or get to know you they just want to have sex and go

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

right and im not gonna be that for someone. just a one night stand and get ghosted?? like wtf who wants that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

good for you for not tolerating that. just be careful bc that’s pretty much the only goal of a ton of dudes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

oh honey, ive had multiple guys in college who just wanted to have sex but i never let it happen. one of them openly had a girlfriend too. i also had two others who were situationships that wanted to, but i told them no. so i can make this generalization based off MULTIPLE experiences not just one. please tell me where these "plenty of guys" are bc i cant seem to find any decent ones. my track record in college sucked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

and I also had a nearly 4 year relationship out of hs so i have no trust in men that the have any capacity to love or communicate their feelings whatsoever. i lost trust in them a long time ago. i have had experience. trust me. so my question is totally realistic.

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Anonymous 11w

wtf what does that have to do with anything??

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Anonymous 11w

but all of them were white except one was dark skinned

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I appreciate you🙏🏼😌

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