A body that at least is healthy, similar interests, has a similar sense of humor, isn’t a complete ass/Karen, treats sex as only something for long term partners, is financially stable, even if a bit embarrassed can say what she thinks at any topic and problem without lying, and well her actually wanting to be with me as more than friends.
In moderation alcohol is perfectly normal, if your an alcoholic then yeah its a problem. Weed is also a gateway drug and lingers plus im gunning for a lawyer position and no firm is going to hire me if they even smell weed on me. I dated a girl who developed a taste for weed, was a pothead and hated her habit.