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i don’t understand how i keep attracting IDIOTS like no your rape jokes and sexist/racist comments aren’t funny or cool. Grown men btw smh
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Anonymous 14w

Cuz those are usually the only types of guys to have the confidence to approach women

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Anonymous 14w

That’s what it just kinda feels like to approach a woman for me anymore. I’m not a bad guy at all, in fact I think I’m too shy more than anything, but so many of my fellow dudes have ruined the chance of a classy, respectable introduction, that I just can’t help but kinda worry that I’m gonna come off as weird for going up to someone. Also, I’m not the most attractive guy ever, so it just sucks for me.

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Anonymous 14w

Even if a women cuts me off on the highway?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

A lot of guys don’t approach because we don’t want to make women uncomfortable. This has the unfortunate byproduct of men who approach being disproportionately likely to not care if women are uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_taco 14w

You know… I never thought of it this way 🤔. Thanks for saying that. It’s a great point

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w
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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Here’s the kicker: because women are then more likely to be approached by men who don’t care if they’re uncomfortable, they’re more likely to publicly express negative feelings towards the idea of being approached by a man. Then, more of the men who care about womens’ comfort will take this as a sign to approach less often (if at all), while the men who don’t care are completely unbothered and continue being rude as usual. TLDR: This is a death spiral.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Wanting to rape a woman for cutting you off on the highway actually is an overreaction, glad we could clear that up

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

I was joking bout the sexist part relax

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