Ask Men on Yik Yak | How to explain to guy in a simple way I talk to that no I don’t want penetrative sex, but I’m not asexual? I get more pleasure from making them feel good and having control than penetrative sex. Girls usually understand, but guys not really.

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How to explain to guy in a simple way I talk to that no I don’t want penetrative sex, but I’m not asexual? I get more pleasure from making them feel good and having control than penetrative sex. Girls usually understand, but guys not really.

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Anonymous 1d

Lowkey I’d say something like what you’ve said here. You’ve given perfectly legitimate reasoning, a good guy should understand

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Anonymous 1d

Some guys prefer that, if he truly cares for you he will want that in whatever capacity.

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Anonymous 1d

Wait so you refuse to ever do it or it’s just not something you want but he can do it if he wants?

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Anonymous

#1 1d

It stems from trauma and never having a good experience with penetrative sex, so I’d honestly prefer never to do it again. However, if we were, it would take a very long time for me to work up the courage to try again.

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Girl copy and paste this and send it to him

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