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why do some men think “hyper gamy” or whatever tf is women’s fault and not something wrong with men in society?? like ik most of you don’t think that but i genuinely cannot understand the ones who do…
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Anonymous 1d

because like is it that crazy to want a partner who is kind and attractive and has their shit together for the most part.

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Anonymous 1d

Bitterness is the best answer I can come up with

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Anonymous 1d

hypergamy isn’t about kind or having your shit together it’s about looks

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Anonymous 1d

how is hypergamy supposed to be men's fault? i dont get it. hypergamy is a choice women make, not men

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

What’s wrong with wanting an attractive partner? Wouldn’t you pick an attractive partner if you had the choice ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

but i don’t even get that tbh because i feel like it’s harder for unattractive women to find relationships than unattractive men. like do yall not know a million hot girls who have ugly ass bfs??😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i mean theres a difference between "dating up" (i.e. a rich guy) versus dating someone who's got their shit together (average wealth guy, but still has a decent life), versus dating a bum

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

but like no girls are dating rich dudes except for a few because legit everyone (women and men included) is poor rn so i don’t get it…? like realistically how many women do u guys know dating rich men because i know 0 lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

It’s harder for unattractive women bet they still only go for the top most attractive males instead of shooting within there league

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

…do you wonder WHY they make that choice? I do not intend for this to be condescending. Take for example, despite the fact that said example does NOT compare men or women to the subjects I chose, “wow, no one goes to that theme park. They must be missing out” ignores the spread of reasons people might not go: high prices, unsafe rides, bad food, bad ownership, inconvenient hours, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

You cannot judge a choice made EN MASS without considering WHY that choice is being made, again, but SO MANY people. Clearly there is more going on than surface observations.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

yes because men will date a broke woman and build w her while it’s not often you all are the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

If you're a man speak only for yourself and nobody else.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

so yeah that's not hypergamy then

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