expecting me to always pay for dates, buy her stuff, always drive, be the strong and steady emotional rock while also wanting me to be soft and sensitive, have an equal voice in decisions around money, activities, etc, equally contribute to household chores. I can do either and I much prefer the latter, actual equality, but you can’t just pick and choose the parts of both that benefit you the most.
Interesting. None of these seem bad to me, could even possibly be construed as good tbh. Like if she wants to be a sahm or not have any particular goals in life I’d view that as not getting caught up in the materialist rat race. Not well traveled could mean she’s spent more of her money & time toward helping ppl than on herself. Being single could mean she has higher standards, & not being centrist could indicate someone who actually thinks for themselves as opposed to just following the masses