idk if this counts as a talk of exclusivity but him and i didn’t want to start dating right before summer break because we would be thousands of miles apart and with a time zone difference so we plan to become official when we return to college from break
i can’t tell if that means we are exclusive because we’re planning that future together? or should i really confirm with a “we’re exclusive right?” does our conversation of talking this summer and then waiting count as exclusivity???
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AnonymousOP1d
you 100% need to confirm
communication is the most important part of a relationship and you can’t just assume such a big thing like exclusivity
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Anonymous#114h
i just don’t know how ? like. ugh. i want the security of knowing we r together like that but it seems so random to ask
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Anonymous#114h
also like. he literally said “i love you” to me so it would be crazy to ask if we r exclusive after he said that.
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AnonymousOP2h
if you’re together it shouldn’t be random to ask
it doesn’t matter if he said i love you - some people’s minds don’t work the same and he may not know you want to be exclusive
you NEED to ask him