
idkk most guys are not worth it. if they genuinely like u, they dont care about the activity. you seem like a thoughtful and considerate person, im sure they just want to get to know u and see if u guys click. a walk in the park or a pretty place, smoking weed, getting a sweet treat or snack, or like maybe a movie or music show or something are good. honestly planning things out can also throw people off. like if one person puts in way more effort into making the date work its kinda a red flag
Surf, skate, charcuterie + sunset (maybe cigs involved), climb a tree and read, explore an abandoned building and fuck on one of those bouncy string net things, make a song together, trampoline park, min max a Diablo 3 seasonal character, hike + cliff jumping, Laser tag, dancing at the club in a country no one knows us, In all of these either talking about philosophy, something really funny that happened recently or business ideas that make people’s lives better.
omg genuinly who asked. like who really gives a fuck. genuinely its less harmful than alchohol, nicotine, prescription pain killers, prescription benzos, gambling, self harm, eating disorders etc. all of the things i listed are perfectly legal to do, and insanely more destructive. nobody cares about ur stupid fucking career either. who cares if i offer to smoke and someone declines, why is that a big deal??? like jesus christ u sound insufferable
who genuinely cares if someone does drugs casually if it doesnt bother a single other person?? like mine. you have literally just fallen for richard nixons and ronald reagans “war on drugs” which is really just a war on poverty and black and brown people. so ur basically a racist. you seem to think that viewing yourself as better than someone who partakes in substances doesnt lead to mass incarceration. r u dense or something??
ur so condescending too. “ohh some people have jobs, not that you would understand” genuinely what the f is wrong with you. who talks to people like that unprompted when i was just trying to give friendly advice. you must have a massive hole in your pre frontal cortex that just makes u behave like a butthurt gorilla
also who cares if u think my comment was doing well accept for that?? nobody. this advice was for one girl in specific not you. and u sound like a tool, whos never actually been inside a woman before. maybe thats why ur so fucking reactive. also these emojis also further my point. men who can hole conversation with the opposite gender dont use emojis. go back to getting groomed on roblox cause ur clearly 12 years old
why does that make what i have to say less valuable. this is called an ad hominem. where instead of attacking the evidence, arguments, and reasoning. you attack the person. this shows that you couldnt find a way to argue with my logic so u just resorted to being mean. which is kinda not cool and cringe
youre talking about one angry person who smokes weed once per month for ur information. and generalizing it to a whole group. which is fallacious reasoning and ought to be discarded. this is why its important to think critically and not get ur opinions on drug users from police, politicians, the private prison lobby. i also had a red eye and havent slept in a day. so forgive me if i come off to harsh.
i offered the suggestion of smoking weed on a date. and he said it was a bad idea to even suggest that because “people are more grown up and responsible in ways that i cant understand” you do realize that you havent actually addressed any of my points about how this logic of thinking you are better than users leads to mass incarceration of minorities. yall seem so happy to live in ur bubble completely unbothered by modern day slavery in the us carceral system
genuinly what is your problem? can you not read? no offense to the dyslexic community. but i laid out multiple reasons why his comment was problematic. 1 he was being condescending to a nice respectful comment 2 his ideology supports mass incarceration of minorities in america 3 my comment wasnt for him to react to, it was personalized advice to one girl to take or leave. it wasnt his place to put me down over a harmless and well meaning suggestion
do you think that using mentally unstable as an insult is okay?? do u think that civil rights activist paul robesons legacy should be scrapped because he had depression, bipolar, paranoia? why do u think its funny to use that as an insult. its honestly just pathetic and is a pure projection on your part. im sorry that you cant understand the reasoning behind the frustration in my comments or the fact that i had a red eye flight and havent slept. ur comment is just pathetic, im not even mad at u
hey guess what i didnt ask. i dont know you, and i think youre annoying. please go away. also insulting me for standing for what i believe in while hoping for the best for me is genuinely pathetic and manipulative. i hope ur mentality changes to something less patronizing and self righteous cause u clearly think way too highly or urself. i didnt ask kid. dont tell me u wish me the best, and then say theres something mentally wrong with me beyond my comprehension. thats insulting. get a fing life
yeah its none of ur business. and ur opinion that “well adjusted people dont do weed.” is not based in any evidence. its empty posturing based on racist war on drugs propaganda designed to put black people in jail. it really is none of your business. and its 100 percent not ur problem. nobody is forcing you to be around weed okayy