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Guys what’s your ideal date? Or just your idea of a good date? I’m trying to think of ways I can spend time with a guy without him getting bored
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Anonymous 7w

April 25th because it's not too hot and not too cold. All you need is a light jacket.

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Anonymous 7w

Depends on the guy. Try finding something you’re both interested in like taxidermy

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Anonymous 7w

July 17th

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Anonymous 6w

Board games are a good idea. He might get like really competitive though.

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Anonymous 7w

Pick any activity that keeps both of you slightly engaged. Not something that keeps y’all from getting to know each other, but just distracting enough to reduce the burden of constantly thinking about the correct things to say the entire time.

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Anonymous 7w

9 holes of golf and 2 beers.

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Anonymous 7w

Meal and dessert

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Anonymous 7w

Actually doing something or going somewhere, not just getting food, and then we go back and watch TV and do the deed and we just kinda talk casually as we do these things

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Anonymous 7w

idkk most guys are not worth it. if they genuinely like u, they dont care about the activity. you seem like a thoughtful and considerate person, im sure they just want to get to know u and see if u guys click. a walk in the park or a pretty place, smoking weed, getting a sweet treat or snack, or like maybe a movie or music show or something are good. honestly planning things out can also throw people off. like if one person puts in way more effort into making the date work its kinda a red flag

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Anonymous 7w

Surf, skate, charcuterie + sunset (maybe cigs involved), climb a tree and read, explore an abandoned building and fuck on one of those bouncy string net things, make a song together, trampoline park, min max a Diablo 3 seasonal character, hike + cliff jumping, Laser tag, dancing at the club in a country no one knows us, In all of these either talking about philosophy, something really funny that happened recently or business ideas that make people’s lives better.

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Anonymous 7w

Just give the poor guy a blowjob. Why are women so dense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Idk if I should laugh or face palm 😭 why that date specifically??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

It was random 😭 for a first date, you might consider something that’s low stakes and allows you to talk about something- like a museum or walk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

📅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I didn’t even know about the emoji

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

📆

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 7w

Dam I didn’t even think of golf and beer. Hell if she don’t want that then I don’t want her

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

You were doing soooo well and then “smoke weed” 🫠🫠😵‍💫😒 You know some ppl have jobs or are intending on getting careers and they can’t have weed showing up in their drug tests

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

omg genuinly who asked. like who really gives a fuck. genuinely its less harmful than alchohol, nicotine, prescription pain killers, prescription benzos, gambling, self harm, eating disorders etc. all of the things i listed are perfectly legal to do, and insanely more destructive. nobody cares about ur stupid fucking career either. who cares if i offer to smoke and someone declines, why is that a big deal??? like jesus christ u sound insufferable

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

who genuinely cares if someone does drugs casually if it doesnt bother a single other person?? like mine. you have literally just fallen for richard nixons and ronald reagans “war on drugs” which is really just a war on poverty and black and brown people. so ur basically a racist. you seem to think that viewing yourself as better than someone who partakes in substances doesnt lead to mass incarceration. r u dense or something??

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

ur so condescending too. “ohh some people have jobs, not that you would understand” genuinely what the f is wrong with you. who talks to people like that unprompted when i was just trying to give friendly advice. you must have a massive hole in your pre frontal cortex that just makes u behave like a butthurt gorilla

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

also who cares if u think my comment was doing well accept for that?? nobody. this advice was for one girl in specific not you. and u sound like a tool, whos never actually been inside a woman before. maybe thats why ur so fucking reactive. also these emojis also further my point. men who can hole conversation with the opposite gender dont use emojis. go back to getting groomed on roblox cause ur clearly 12 years old

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

You sound mentally unstable

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Someone must not like the calendar emoji very much 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

“go back to getting groomed” 😬 so uhh for anyone wondering “why do people look down on some people who do weed” this person is exhibit A. This is what it does to your brain 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

why does that make what i have to say less valuable. this is called an ad hominem. where instead of attacking the evidence, arguments, and reasoning. you attack the person. this shows that you couldnt find a way to argue with my logic so u just resorted to being mean. which is kinda not cool and cringe

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

btw before I get attacked for this take, I specified some, not all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i just dont like #8 i have no bad opinions on emojis outside of this user. sorry for the confusion #3

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Pot calling the kettle black. You did the exact same thing when you had your crazy crashout

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

You don’t need to apology to me. I don’t like your takes either. I’m fair game, be mean to me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

All of this just because someone pointed out not everyone can smoke weed all the time 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i actually had points that i really believe in and think are valid. if u cant see those than thats on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

youre talking about one angry person who smokes weed once per month for ur information. and generalizing it to a whole group. which is fallacious reasoning and ought to be discarded. this is why its important to think critically and not get ur opinions on drug users from police, politicians, the private prison lobby. i also had a red eye and havent slept in a day. so forgive me if i come off to harsh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

really where did he say that. thats not what i read. it seems like you need to get ur reading comprehension skills up buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

i offered the suggestion of smoking weed on a date. and he said it was a bad idea to even suggest that because “people are more grown up and responsible in ways that i cant understand” you do realize that you havent actually addressed any of my points about how this logic of thinking you are better than users leads to mass incarceration of minorities. yall seem so happy to live in ur bubble completely unbothered by modern day slavery in the us carceral system

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

dont mince ur words and hug the fence

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

genuinly what is your problem? can you not read? no offense to the dyslexic community. but i laid out multiple reasons why his comment was problematic. 1 he was being condescending to a nice respectful comment 2 his ideology supports mass incarceration of minorities in america 3 my comment wasnt for him to react to, it was personalized advice to one girl to take or leave. it wasnt his place to put me down over a harmless and well meaning suggestion

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

do you think that using mentally unstable as an insult is okay?? do u think that civil rights activist paul robesons legacy should be scrapped because he had depression, bipolar, paranoia? why do u think its funny to use that as an insult. its honestly just pathetic and is a pure projection on your part. im sorry that you cant understand the reasoning behind the frustration in my comments or the fact that i had a red eye flight and havent slept. ur comment is just pathetic, im not even mad at u

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

All that because of this

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 7w

so u took a screenshot because u cant actually analyze text and form ur own opinions. great job. ur so smart and definitely not perpetuating harmful and racist stereotypes that put black people in jail disproportionately

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

I hope that you can live a happier and healthier life in the future. That is all I have to say to you since you’ve made it evident with your “reasoning” that you are beyond reason. Have a good life, hopefully your mentality changes at some point along the way

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Thank u for the advice! It’s honestly very solid advice which I appreciate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

hey guess what i didnt ask. i dont know you, and i think youre annoying. please go away. also insulting me for standing for what i believe in while hoping for the best for me is genuinely pathetic and manipulative. i hope ur mentality changes to something less patronizing and self righteous cause u clearly think way too highly or urself. i didnt ask kid. dont tell me u wish me the best, and then say theres something mentally wrong with me beyond my comprehension. thats insulting. get a fing life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

😭ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

I think well adjusted people don’t react the way you are acting to something they read online. For what it’s worth I don’t smoke weed and don’t want to be around it. I guess it is one of those things that what adults do in their own home is none of my business.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

yeah its none of ur business. and ur opinion that “well adjusted people dont do weed.” is not based in any evidence. its empty posturing based on racist war on drugs propaganda designed to put black people in jail. it really is none of your business. and its 100 percent not ur problem. nobody is forcing you to be around weed okayy

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

They didn’t even say well adjusted people don’t do weed 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

okay i misread, my bad. anyways who cares. stop commenting on my shit. get a life

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

I kind of selfishly used this as a brainstorming session for myself, but I’m pretty sure most dudes would like laser tag or trampoline park, maybe not though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Not until marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Boooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Just kidding, do your thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

lol k

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

You’re welcome OP! Make sure to safeguard your future!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

Homie, disrespectfully, OP isn’t talking to you! Also, get back on your meds! You’re unhinged!

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