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Ask Men 18h
saw bf history searching for “best friend” porn, then immediately after searched “girlfriend”. he doesn’t have a girl bsf. closest thing is his best friends gf. (going to continue in comments bcus it’s long)
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Anonymous 18h

my bfs bsf lives at gfs house, so in order to hang with his bsf he also must hang w her. so bc the 3 are always together, i’d say that’s the only other girl he’s ‘close’ too. also should mention he searched for this after coming back from her place. idk what to do. do i confront him about it? do i just accept it, because i know at the end of the day men are lustful and always having thoughts abt fucking other girls. we’ve had convos about porn before and agreed he shouldn’t be watching it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

he’s made efforts to stop, including putting website blockers so he doesn’t access these sites. he has told me he’s had times where he’s gotten those thoughts, searched up the site, and the blocker was enough to make him snap back. but he admitted there’s times where he’s bypassed it and watched it anyway. but the fact that he’s more than likely fantasizing abt someone he knows personally is bothering me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

i think half the reason i’m not as mad as i should be is because she’s ugly. sadly i think it’s just one of those attraction by proximity thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Tell him to try using shift. The content filter is free and there’s an option where the only way to bypass it on a device is to literally call their service help desk (who are trained to sniff out bs excuses) and convince multiple different people to agree to change your settings. It’s helped a lot for me https://shiftyourphone.com

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