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How many times do you make eye contact with a woman before you’d feel comfortable approaching her? I get it’s scary to approach women these days but if a woman is making herself approachable by repeatedly making eye contact and smiling what do you do?
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Anonymous 12w

eye contact wont be clocked as being interest to most guys

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Anonymous 12w

This is how I feel when I make eye contact with a random woman

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Anonymous 12w

We could be touching eyeballs and I wouldn't

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Anonymous 12w

I’m going to count the number of times we make eye-contact, and on the seventh time, I’m going to go say hi…

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Anonymous 12w

Eye contact doesn’t mean much, smile or a little wave are usually the step where it’s like oh yea she’s interested. Like eye contact could mean anything from her staring thinking ur hot, to her dozing off, or looking at smth behind you. Wave or smile is intentional

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Anonymous 12w

I would never approach off of either those 2. Eye contact means nothing and last time I approached off a smile I got laughed at

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Anonymous 12w

I never feel comfortable

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Anonymous 12w

Making eye contact with a man is NOT a sign of interest

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

So how would I signal with my body language that it’s safe to approach me. I know you’re gunna say “just approach him” but take that answer off the table.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You literally have to approach him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Yeah I could. But it’s pretty hot if a guy has the balls to do it. He kinda loses his appeal if I have to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

It’s thrilling I love making eye contact with people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Men naturally don't like making eye contact as much as women do. I learned about it in my psychology class. Men take eye contact with strangers as a confrontation

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Like dogs ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I guess, idk anything about dogs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Wave, send your friend over, blow a kiss, nod, idk something other than “I blinked so you should ask me out now”

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

It’s a subtle one but ya it is if it happens repeatedly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

No 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Well im telling you im a woman and if im interested in someone ill keep looking in their direction because im attracted to them. Therefore a sign of interest. Maybe not for everyone (you)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It is not a RELIABLE sign of interest

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