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How to stop treating my guy friend like a bf
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Anonymous 21h

If you both are single and like him a lot, is there a reason you haven't asked him out? Maybe this is a sign you both could be really good together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I don’t have feelings for him currently. We tried the fwb but I didn’t like how the increase in attention was only when I was engaging in sexual activities with him . Now we’re back to friends. I just wanting a lot of his time. I feel bad cause it definitely high maintenance to talk everyday . I started talking to him less to no be attached but I think ending the friendship is for the best

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Ah gotcha, that makes a lot of sense, and I'm really sorry to hear he was only giving you more attention when that was the case. That has to be feel really shitty and isn't fair to you. In that case, I think you're right maybe you both want different things and may not be the most compatible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I tried leaving twice but I then come back cause I feel bad for just ghosting him and 2 I remember I don’t have many friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

There's nothing wrong with deciding it's best to go no contact if you think that's best for you! You should do what's best for you. If you're comfortable, you could explain why you would want to do that. If he is a good person, he will understand given you two's history of trying FWB and the fact that you don't feel the same way he does

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I feel so sad about things ending which is why I was holding it off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I'm sorry, that's a tough place to be. Definitely feel free to take your time to decide, but ultimately, don't feel bad to do what is right for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Im scared to have that uncomfortable conversation

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