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Ask Men 1w
I think I agree w this somewhat. Some men need to learn to accept that now that women choose to stay single more in our developed society then an equal amount of men should also be okay with that whether they want that or not.
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what do u guys think about this take
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Anonymous 1w

i can agree with the part that many guys still uphold old patriarchal values that are way past their expiration date, but that's an issue of their paradigms, not their biology. people can change how they think, and i've seen it happen. to say that those men are being naturally selected against implies that their attitudes about women and dating are in their biology, which is objectively not true. it is for the most part mainly a social issue

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Anonymous 1w

Uh that is kinda not how it works because almost no one is going to voluntarily opt out of the biological urge to be social and connect with people

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Anonymous 1w

It’s a good thing that women can choose to be single now but the incels are fighting against exactly that right now

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t understand why this is being downvoted LMAO like “no women aren’t allowed!!!!”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You are delusional

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

This post is just an “if, then” statement and you’re getting caught up in the if

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Clearly many of the women are

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Loneliness is more than romance, hope this helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Where are the women complaining about female loneliness epidemic then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Loneliness is more than romance, hope this helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

We get posts from them pretty often actually, they just haven’t quite realized it’s an epidemic yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I agree. It’s a general loneliness epidemic that I think can affect men disproportionately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

The posts are almost always something to the effect of “why aren’t men approaching us or asking us out?? :(“ so I think it’s probably more romance focused for them

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Anonymous replying to -> vangogh 1w

also to say that you are being naturally selected against is an icky, ethically questionable statement. bordering eugenicism even

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Anonymous replying to -> vangogh 1w

this statement makes people lose hope, which just worsens the issue for the men who are struggling (who can change, by the way), and then that hopelessness puts men who are already full of hate into a position where they feel like they have nothing to lose (a dangerous place). also, he argues for it being natural selection, but only mentions social things. the argument was dumb, baseless and unhelpful to begin with

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