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Ask Men 7w
ofc it’s not everyone but why do some men do everything to have me fall in love, and then pull back and leave.. someone give me a man’s perspective im 2 for 2 now. and it starts off so wholesome and they’re otherwise good people 😞
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Anonymous 7w

You would have to ask those specific guys.

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Anonymous 7w

I’m sure that I’ll get downvoted for this, but have you considered that you might be the reason? You said that they’re “otherwise good people” and that things “start off wholesome”. The only thing that consistently changes over time with relationships is that you get to know the other person more. 2 people is a small sample size tho; I’d only be concerned if it keeps happening.

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Anonymous 7w

They’re prob just a little psychologically unstable and/or immature tbh. You can be an otherwise good person while still having unresolved issues or just not being mature enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

that’s my biggest concern, that i’m too boring 😔 as a quiet shy girl growing up that randomly turned pretty i get attention now? and the two most recent times i reciprocate is kind of when i lose them.. theyve both said something along the lines that i deserve someone who can give me everything but that its not them coincidentally i learned they kind of want to stay in their single eras (hook up with people) and i had no idea, ig they both had given me the impression of wanting a relationship

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