he only likes skinny blonde sorority girls and i’m brunette, curvier, and bit more alternative but every time we hang out we have a really good time together. is the only reason he doesn’t want me bc im big and a little weird?
he’ll flirt w me/buy my drinks, but he only takes home ppl who don’t look like me
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AnonymousOP7w
What would happen if you tried to progress things forward ?
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Anonymous#17w
too scared i would lose him as a friend
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AnonymousOP7w
Does it hurt to see him choose other people
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Anonymous#17w
Sometimes you have to take risks for peace of mind
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Anonymous#17w
a little. not to be crude but it’s more of a “what’s wrong w me that makes him not wanna fuck me”
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AnonymousOP7w
There’s nothing wrong with you, you just MIGHT not be his type. What you can do is just escalate the flirting slightly. Do you compliment him or like casually touch him
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Anonymous#17w
yeah we compliment each other a lot. and yeah i guess so. we smoke together so we get pretty close to each other/touch hands to pass it off
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AnonymousOP7w
If he compliments your looks then you’re good to go. I def think you could maybe pull off a snuggle or eventually a makeout especially if you’re drinking/smoking
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Anonymous#17w
that’s the issue. it’s more like “that fit is fire” “i like your necklaces tn” and less about my actual looks
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AnonymousOP7w
Hmm it’s tricky. Maybe you could compliment his looks particularly or go for a snuggle. I don’t think that’s too risky if you wanna try for it
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Anonymous#17w
wordd thank you
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AnonymousOP7w
Good luck. Don’t think that boys are so strict in their “types” that they wouldn’t like you. Just have fun with it
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AnonymousOP6w
Nothing has to be wrong with you for him to not be interested.