Anonymous #1 4w

That sounds so unhealthy wtf😭

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Anonymous #1 4w

Personally, the consistent factors i’ve noticed i like in women are that she makes good decisions/ choices that align with my morals and she has one of those slightly arrogant personality where she makes little comments like “i know i make you nervous, it’s okay” or “it’s okay, you can look” TS EATS ME UP

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Anonymous #1 4w

I have had this happen to me once. It was not fun haha…

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Anonymous OP 4w

How’s it unhealthy? Men who are with a woman they love immediately lose all insecurity because only her opinion really matters.

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Anonymous #1 4w

I mean it is putting her on a pedestal

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Anonymous #1 4w

It’s unhealthy to let your attraction towards someone blind you. Attraction is not the same thing as love. And if you are not secure enough in yourself and your own opinions/morals/beliefs than the relationship is doomed to fail the moment she doesn’t say or do what you want her to.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I mean you asked me what would make me yearn for a woman. Why would I yearn for a woman who I don’t value more than everyone else? I don’t just immediately long for a woman that’s something that has to come with time.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Also i don’t know where the second half of your statement came from. How does it make someone insecure in any facet to value someone a lot💀 I feel like you have toxic relationship expectations. An example of opinions not mattering is say, my friends say her ass is small, I don’t care they can fall down the stairs. You took it and ran the complete wrong direction

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Anonymous #1 4w

I think you are missing the point of everything I just said🫠 Because the way you speak makes me feel like you would idealize a woman who is actually a really shitty person but you’d be too infatuated by her beauty to see it or listen to others warnings. If I’m wrong then none of what I said applies to you.

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Anonymous OP 4w

No. Beauty is only one part of attraction. Neither factor I listed in attraction had anything to do with looks. I’m saying that once a woman becomes someone I value so much that I don’t value any other opinions about her or about my relationship with her that she’d be yearn worthy. Does that make sense?

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Anonymous #1 4w

I guess , I just don’t understand what makes you value her so much in the first place.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Oh you wanted more specifics. I’ve yearned for one woman in my adult life (I’m 22) and I met her in my PHD program. She did all of the small things so well. Always greeted me with a smile and a wave, always noticed small things I would do for her like hold the door for her, never acted entitled, made little slick comments, and she had factors indicating she would make an amazing mother. She was just had almost everything I wanted in a woman. She now lives across the country so we decided to…

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Anonymous #1 4w

Not have a relationship until we are at least done with school. She also had a low body count which is controversial nowadays but I’m waiting till marriage so that was a huge + for me as well. Thats what I expect from a woman to be yearn worthy if you want my honest answer. Every man is going to have different standards, so take mine with a grain of salt

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