Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 13w

bc don’t guys prefer experienced girls?? i feel like i’m boring these guys at my college 😭

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Anonymous OP 13w

Why are you basing if you’re boring or not based on sexual activity? Sex is not everything in college

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Anonymous OP 13w

i have never once met a guy that was like "man i like her but i just wish she had fucked a buncha other guys before me"💀

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Anonymous amethyst_bacon 13w

bc every time i’m w a guy i feel like they will expect sex at some point in time and i can’t give them that and then i start overthinking and panicking

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Anonymous OP 13w

If all a man wants from you is sex it’s not even worth your time. But like you’re saying it’ll happen eventually, just let it develop naturally and if it leads to that it does but don’t think becuase you’re a virgin guys will look down on you. Just set boundaries and when you’re ready you’re ready

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 13w

ok well idk if it’s just the guys that i’m getting but AT SOME POINT they become disappointed and leave and now i’m starting to think mb it’s me

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Anonymous OP 13w

ma'am theyre just not the right people. i'm sorry to say it, but in dating, MOST of the people you date are gonna leave at some point in time. its all about finding that one right person🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 13w

ik that i’m saying i feel like they’re leaving bc i can’t give them sex. i had like a good 2-3 guys tell me basically yeah it’s not gonna work bc i can’t give them that

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Anonymous OP 13w

are guys that leave because you wont open your legs for them the kinda guys you wanna be dating??

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 13w

no but it seems like those r the type of guys i be attracting 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 13w

i feel you on that one sister😭🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 13w

girl i’m ab to wlw 😭😭😭

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Anonymous amethyst_bacon 13w

i hope so 🥲

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Anonymous OP 13w

Sex is an important part of relationships for some people. There are going to be men that don’t want a sexless relationship. You just gotta try to find people who’s values/ beliefs align closer with yours, they’re also out there.

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Anonymous OP 13w

😭😭😭

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Anonymous OP 13w

Wait, what? You can’t have sex? That’s a VERY different problem. Your post read like you were TRYING to get laid but were afraid you weren’t appealing enough. But if you don’t want sex, you can probably afford to be less worried about turning ppl off, right? You’re not having any less sex with them after all. Did you just want them to pine in futility? If that’s what floats your boat, you can probably accomplish that, but you can’t expect it to be permanent; enough time & anyone would wise up

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