At some point I lost interest. Idk. A lot of times, I’m genuinely not in the mood but my dick gets hard because of stimulation and my gf is like “it looks like you’re in the mood” but I’m not. We start going through the motions, I lose interest and I go soft. I feel like maybe that’s just a me thing though. Dudes love sex right? We should anyway. At least that’s what I’m led to believe.