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do any other guys not bother with girls bc they know they’ll never have a chance with them?
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Anonymous 5d

Yes

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Anonymous 5d

Yep

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Anonymous 5d

Yes

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Anonymous 5d

Really no one to ask, every woman my age around me is super different than me; other than hooking up there really is no one I can see forming a deep special bond with. Im sure it will happen. “But hey thats lifeeeee”

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Anonymous 5d

I don't bother with girls because I'm gay, but I still get the feeling

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Anonymous 5d

Yeah

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Anonymous 5d

Seems like a depressing way of looking at things and a sure fire way of putting yourself at a disadvantage in making new friends… That said, I get it, this was me once (very recently actually)

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Anonymous 4d

I promise if you put yourself out there; there will be people who will either reciprocate or be friendly. Some may give a bad reaction. But last week at a bachelorette my friends and I had a guy try to hit on us we were all uninterested. (Most taken married/engaged/relationships) we made a friend and he joined us dancing from club to club. We never exchanged info but it was a fun time. So while you might not get a date it won’t always end in fire. Hope this helps build trust you can say hi.

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Anonymous 3d

Yes (I have crippling social anxiety)

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Anonymous 3d

PLEASE come up and ask I promise you literally will never know the answer. Being told no sucks but it’s also the worst thing that can happen!

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 5d

i don’t want friends, i want a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

been there, done that. it's not gonna work out if a gf is all you care about in your social life. you need to find balance

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Anonymous replying to -> vangogh 5d

Dunno why you’re getting downvoted when a girlfriend is a friend at the end of the day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3d

Objectively false that it's the worst thing that can happen. She could pull out a knife and stab me repeatedly

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

please stand a considerable distance away if you get this vibe😔😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

i cant ever recall a time someone has ever done that, even on the news

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