Depends the friend and the context. Like some of my friends saying really fucked shit I ignore as ik they are intelligent and good ppl with a fucked sense of humor, other friends actually do ride the line between bad person and ik the jokes have some meaning behind them. Like one Hispanic friend of mine rips the n word constantly, but he’s kind of dark Hispanic and has been dating a black girl for like 4 or 5 years. Nobody says anything. Hispanic redneck who went to catholic school is diff story