there’s some hurt men in here

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yeah its cute to be a little nonchalant sometimes but theres a point where u dont need to act uninterested anymore yk, like why is there a battle of the egos

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Bc that’s what women respond to. Women don’t respond to people being chalant.

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Can’t speak for “men,” can speak for myself(man): Tryna be forward/chalant is hard af bc we get the message that pushy men are creepy/unwanted and many of us don’t wanna be that guy. Plus, when ya finally get up courage to be chalant and get rejected in a mean-spirited way, and see the same thing happen to your friends, ya start to get the idea that being chalant isn’t the answer. If ya like someone and they’re nonchalant, it doesn’t mean they don’t like you back. Pursue em whether u boy or girl

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Because that’s who yall be fucking . Women don’t be complaining about their bf loving them too much and supporting them or ever even talking about. All I see posted is complaints about ur lover NOT being there and supportive, yet they still be the lover. If there are 2 men, one visibly interested and the other nonchalant and passively interested, the latter wins every time

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