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It’s amazing when men have the courage to approach a girl however some girls may not be in the right place for a relationship (or whatever the issue is) so men, what is the best way for a girl to say no without offending you or hurting your feelings?
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Anonymous 5w

Just say no

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Anonymous 5w

Yea just say no, annoying af when they make sum bs up like I have a bf, bc we can usually tell when it’s cap by the tone of voice. Also if there’s like an external reason just mention that and be like, yea I’m not in a place for a relationship rn and it isn’t as bad

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Anonymous 5w

Just a friendly “no thanks” ig would be best

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Anonymous 5w

“I’m immensely flattered, and (if attractive) ‘you are attractive’ (if unattractive or you just wanna) ‘you seem really sweet’, but I’m genuinely not on the market right now, so thank you, but no”

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

also why is it “amazing”???😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

it’s genuinely a turn on to have a guy be the one to approach me because it shows a level of confidence that is super attractive and I feel like a ton of guys have shared their discomfort in approaching women so I feel like it’s becoming less common. And many guys can have the approach that makes them seem like a hoe so the few that get it right are top tier

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Nah they just need to grow up, I think the fear of approaching fades as you get more relationship experience and realize girls are human too, not smth you gotta like “conquer” for lack of a better word. Basically if it is THAT big of an issue they gotta grow up a lil bit

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

…your hot. Also thank you for replying to several of my posts now lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Long winded, but it thoroughly gets your no across without making the guy feel like he’s lesser-than or that he did something wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Thank you this is very helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah. That or just spit on him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeah I tried that but he told me to save that spit for later 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

HA! That is funny. You did good with that one. Or, if he actually said that, that is quite disturbing, but still witty

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

😉

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

saying i have a bf even tho i don’t feels safer tbh. ofc there will still be guys that press on like “you can’t have friends?” etc. but i once told a man i wasn’t interested and he continued to stand 10 feet away from me menacing and bark and call at me until the train arrived. and this is one of MANY experiences by the way. a lot of women lie and say they have bfs because men might take it less personally and might get less angry with you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

How do yk what I look like?😎😎😎

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Anonymous replying to -> bobthebuilt 5w

What can I say I’m a girl that finds smart guys extremely hot

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