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Vent to someone and then about halfway through you will realize who’s the problem because you’ll catch yourself and be like wait that sounds toxic.
Were you left as an exercise to the reader ?
Ask a bunch of strangers who don’t know you or any of the context surrounding the question
Do u primarily care abt urself and how things affect u or do u take into acc other ppl
Obv not a silver bullet for that questions but plenty of ppl I know swear that they aren’t the problem but only worry abt themselves
Nice one!