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Why do men rely so much on “hypergamy” like where did this all come from? To me its like it all happened one night randomly and now every uses it as an excuse! I dont understand why men put themselves down at every chance willingly?! Just be confident 😮‍💨
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Anonymous 19h

My roommates are incels and this is what I believe about them. Hypergamy protects their self image. It’s easier for them to believe it is because of the immorality of women that they don’t get any action, instead of realizing that they actually have to talk to and be respectful of women. Personally I’m anti slut but it takes 2 yk.

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Anonymous 17h

Am I hot enough to “just be confident”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Anti slut is crazy 😭 you can have sexual preferences for partners but saying ts like it’s a movement is wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Like I’m chill wit premarital sex, I love me some premarital sex. But it should come from long term relationships not thrill seeking and self validation. With that I think it’s immoral. Thus, I’m anti slut.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Thats a fair view tbh at least its not like those people who hate a person for having more than 1 body count

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

And I’m trying to make it a movement

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

The chud "muh women are to blame" vs the chad "no matter what I do, there's a certain luck factor required, and I'm just really unlucky"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Yeah we all have the right to sleep around but it should be equally stigmatized against both men and women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

The Chad philosopher, “perhaps women don’t want to get with me for the same reason I don’t want to get with a weird ugly chick?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Okay that’s an opinion you’re allowed to have totally especially for your personal partners, but it doesn’t mean like you have to be against everyone who disagree. I personally couldn’t do sex without a connection but some people can and as long as they both consent, are safe, and aware it’s just sex it’s fully ok. I also agree sex should never be a form of self validation:) The anti slut thing just gave it a more hateful tone which I don’t think was your intent.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Also sex is fun and I think it being used as thrill seeking is entirely okay as long as, again, everyone is safe consenting and on the same page! Body counts are entirely okay to consider when discussing compatibility, but just like with weight or height, someone not matching your preferences doesn’t give you the right to shame them or say they’re wrong :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

True

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Depends on how hot of a woman you’re going for 😉

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Why should that matter? If the answer is just be confident it should work for any girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Looks are subjective and only matter partially in looking for relationships, confidence carries a lot!! Putting yourself down with negative “no girl will ever want me talk” makes that reality, because no one wants a partner that insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Yeah how conventionally hot someone is doesn’t automatically mean they would only date someone else who’s conventionally hot. Looks are very subjective. My roomate is like the standard for conventional attractiveness but I don’t think she usually goes for conventionally attractive guys, we both agree personality carries a lot more.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

I could see a few girls I know dating you! You are a normal typical looking guy and there is nothing wrong with that! I truly think if you loved yourself and put yourself out there you could achieve so much with a nice outfit and a smile :D

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