he’s right about toxicity and the patriarchy being enforced by herd mentality, but his war metaphor is a little iffy. The people in power don’t need us to be toxic to each other to stay in power, they just need us distracted. “The attack on masculinity” is just one potential distraction from dismantling our problems. He also makes it sound very intentional and organized, when it’s usually individuals doing lots of little things to further the patriarchy without realizing

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