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i need a man’s opinion. he said he doesn’t know if he wants a relationship bc he might or might not move in 2 months. i understand and respect that. but. i don’t wanna get into another situationship ever again.
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Anonymous 13w

So then just tell him that you’re not interested right now but if he doesn’t move then you would consider a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

i told him that and he said he’d like to keep things casual for now and i don’t do casual but i really like him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

If you don’t wanna do a situationship you’re gonna have to tell him no, and if he doesn’t wanna consider dating after that even if he doesn’t move then I don’t think you can do much unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Keep it casual and put boundaries so it stays more as friends if you’re comfortable with that. That way it won’t stray into a situationship if there’s boundaries. Could be tough though given you already have feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 13w

i don’t think i could stay just friends after everything. should i cut it off?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I think if you truly don’t want a situationship then yea you got to cut it off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Yep that’s gonna be the better option at this point it seems

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Tell him what you’re willing to, and not willing to do. If he’s not willing to do what you want from him, and you’re not willing to do what he wants from you, then say you’re sorry it wasn’t meant to be and let that be the end of it.

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