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do guys actually like curvy/bigger women? and not just in a weird fetishized way? (F21) (as a curvy woman)
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Anonymous 14w

Curvy yes, bigger no

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Anonymous 14w

Yes

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Anonymous 14w

I am on the tail end of a weight loss journey. I’m down 55 lbs in less than a year. And bc of this I can’t date a fat woman. I can never go back to my old self and me dating a fat woman would be like a recovering alcoholic dating a current alcoholic. And yes I can confirm I was addicted to food, it it an addiction so excluding the dozens of other reasons this is why I could never

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Anonymous 14w

Yes, people have made fetish way to close to like something you like it's weird

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Anonymous 14w

Ong I love my girls on the bigger side just like this

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Anonymous 14w

I dont. 1. For obvious health reasons (cardiovascular issues, diabetes, other metabolic issues) 2. I dont want my kids to be fat so a large part of that is ensuring my partner and i are on the same page about exercise and nutrition seeing as we are charged with ensuring our kids health and welfare. 3. It looks bad.

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Anonymous 14w

okay but the problem is men’s view of what “healthy” is different from reality. also that a curvy woman is someone with big boobs and a big butt with no stomach or thighs and that is no realistic which is toxic

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Anonymous 14w

No, not at all. But that’s one of the few things that people aren’t attracted to that you can change with enough effort. You might truly be surprised on how attractive you are with a fit body!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

This

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Anonymous replying to -> thewanderingpotato 14w

4. Also the food isn’t free. U would have to pay way more money on food alone…

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

yeah that too

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

as someone who is 45lbs down on a weight loss journey i get that but also a woman who may have a little more meat on her bones does not mean unhealthy habits or someone that is gonna put you back there, just food for thought

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

The problem is that everyone has a different definition of curvy. Like how big we talkin?

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

what is your definition?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Like 10 to 20 lbs overweight at the most. Like this photo of Selena Gomez is the perfect example. Not rail thin but not a Twinky demolisher

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

if this is what men think is “curvy” then i think we have lost all hope.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Fellas lmk if I’m crazy or nah

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

Yeah I'm lost here big dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> orange_joyful_cat44 14w

Really? Whats your definition? And plz add a photo for visual

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

This give or take 15 pounds

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Anonymous replying to -> orange_joyful_cat44 14w

I mean that looks pretty damn close to mine but this size is valid without the plus 15 lbs. it’s the highest id to

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

Go*

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

Yea you’re crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

This is the Wayy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

U can have that for yourself my brother 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

^ op avoid men like this lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

does this just mean having big boobs/butt

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Anonymous replying to -> idkwhatticomeupwith 14w

Yea that why I said add 15, I didn't feel like looking too hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 14w

God forbid we have preferences

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 14w

Bigger side you say😐😐🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 14w

Mhm love me a bigger girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 14w

Your oicture is just a hard opposite of what your talking about tho😂😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 14w

Wym that’s a bigger girl right there

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 14w

You’ve been ragebaited

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Yeah I know this is irony, but this might feed into the anorexia of anyone who is anorexic and sees this. The girl in the image you posted is sickly thin, unhealthy looking so. Please be aware of how your posts may be perceived by others on the internet in ways you didn’t intend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

I mean.. come on. You have to be 18 years old at least to sign up for this app. If you’re 18 and being influenced by social media, that’s just sad and pathetic imo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Anorexia and mental health more generally aren’t just limited to people under 18, tf! People of any age can have mental health challenges and be affected by social media.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Dude, when your mental health is already spiraling, it has a way of taking anything and making it worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13w

Don’t worry, I know all about that. I also learned not to care what people on social media have to say, like a regular, well-adjusted human being.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

Not really. It’s just childish to have a full on mental health breakdown over something you see online.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

Which is fine for a child. But for someone over 18? Come on. You need to get over it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Well your post could have very easily contributed to someone’s spiraling mental health.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

When your mental health is already fucked, you’re not exactly thinking logically. If you can’t put yourself in those shoes because you can’t relate count yourself lucky.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13w

My mental health *is* fucked dawg, I just don’t let it get fucked even further by shit posted online

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

Well, not everyone who struggles with their mental health struggles with it in the same way as you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

Eh, the ratio begs to differ😎

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