Anonymous #3 16h

its not the time or place for it. im trying to focus on my work out. also getting hit on isn't almost never a pleasant experience. it doesn't just end at compliments. just leave people alone at the gym. im not there to make friends.

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Anonymous #1 16h

i don't know a single women who wants to be interrupted while working out especially just to be objectified. those women aren't working out for the right reasons.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Not every approach is objectification I hope you know

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Anonymous OP 16h

Yo ass is tweaking gng 😹😭😭

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Anonymous #2 16h

today i was harassed by a man at a gym and it made me really uncomfortable. im changing gyms bc of it. he wouldn't leave me alone for my entire workout and just kept asking me questions or staring at me. he didn’t even work out

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Anonymous OP 16h

Ok now that’s different

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Anonymous #3 16h

why do you think i made a post abt it?

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Anonymous OP 14h

Being approached or hit on is completely different than being harassed

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Anonymous #3 14h

not in my experience, even when i reported it to my gym they told me they can't control if people hit on me or not.

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Anonymous #4 14h

im not saying never hit on women, but the gym is literally the worst place. a "hobby meetup" whatever that is, is probably different, and like with this post i agree you shouldn't become friends with a woman if ur only intention is to build up to a romantic relationship....

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Anonymous #3 14h

in my experience being hit on, means men coming up to you and bothering u and making comments on ur body and not respecting no.

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Anonymous OP 14h

Ok well that’s being harassed you even described it as harassed rather than hit on

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Anonymous OP 13h

Most regular gym goers describe going to the gym as their hobby ☠️

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Anonymous #4 13h

i go to the gym everyday and it's certainly not a hobby, it's something everyone should do in order to stay fit. hobbies are like painting or playing video games or reading. i wouldn't consider working out a hobby, but playing recreational sports is ya know?

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Anonymous #5 13h

then you're not at the gym for the same reason

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Anonymous #3 13h

they r the same thing

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Anonymous OP 13h

No they ain’t 😭

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Anonymous OP 10h

I go to the gym to improve myself. If a guy sees that and finds it attractive, I’m totally flattered! I don’t feel objectified, I moreso feel noticed.

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Anonymous #5 8h

so if he says you have a great rack and bomb ass you don't feel objectified? if he told you that you have "BJ" lips you wouldn't feel objectified?? or if he told you he would like to test your stamina somewhere else?? you'd be flattered? i don't want anyone making comments abt my body like that

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Anonymous OP 7h

Woah😭 hey me neither girl. If a cute guy came up to you at the gym and started a casual, natural conversation and ended off on “hey can I get your number?” Or “would you want to get dinner sometime?” do you feel objectified? Because that is what I’m talking about. Those assholes who say that stuff will do it anywhere, the gym doesnt change the person. Getting “hit on” does not imply the creepiness you are describing. Would you want to be hit on like that anywhere at all? Being hit on is

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Anonymous #5 7h

-usually pretty nice!

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Anonymous #5 7h

no it's not at least not for me, it's always one of those comments and then them just staring at me

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Anonymous OP 6h

You seem so miserable ☠️

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