okay serious question.. are guys like 16-25 just all in the “fuck boy phase”? i feel like it’s so hard to find a guy who genuinely wants a committed relationship and not just a hookup. Just wondering if i should just start dating older men 😂
A lot of young men who have access to hookups (very attractive/ sociable) will pick that lifestyle over a relationship.
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Anonymous3w
Lots of them yes. Not all. The ones not looking for hookups are probably not putting themselves out there enough for the people who want relationships. And the rest are just not looking for anything right now
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Anonymous3w
Idk but I’m not and I’m 20
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Anonymous3w
Um depends what circles you run in? Me and my gf are very commited and we are 20. We are also christians tho so that helps
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Anonymous3w
I think it depends on the area lowkey
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Anonymous3w
Where are you looking?
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Anonymous3w
There’s plenty that aren’t
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Anonymous3w
Nawr I'm 21 and I'm not a fuck boy
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Anonymous3w
ofc not, but probably more likely
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Anonymous2w
idek alot of us dont know what we want one day i just wanna hookup the next i want a gf to cuddle we all cooked in the brain ngl
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Anonymousstanczyk3w
but to answer the question, no
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Anonymoussea_taco3w
thank you sea taco 😂
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Anonymousstanczyk3w
thanks for your input stanczyk
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Anonymous#33w
okay so follow up question, are they guys who aren’t in the phase just not looking for relationships?
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AnonymousOP3w
No there’s plenty that are but some aren’t. Some of us just have atrocious flirting abilities and confidence
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Anonymouspurp_diamond3w
I have been called an ineffectual whor3 before
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Anonymous#92w
yeah definitely feel like the type of people you're around influences who you run into as far as dating. if you meet people through clubs and dating apps, you're not likely going to find someone who wants a relationship.