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as a girl I have several best best guy friends, and some of them have admitted to liking me at certain points in times. If you are best friends with a guy, shat are the odds hes actually only likes you as a friend?
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Anonymous 1d

As a woman who isn't into men this happens to me too. It just makes me curious about their intentions. I always tell people I'm befriending I'm not interested ahead of time near the beginning of a friendship and yet some guys unfortunately still get upset when I turn them down. Falling in love with someone you care about is normal but being mad they won't "fix" themself for you feels gross

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Anonymous 1d

Around 0%

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Anonymous 9h

Shat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t think it’s 0%, but I think the percentage goes down the longer the friendship is. I think it’s pretty natural that if you, as a heterosexual man, have a woman who you hang out with a lot, enjoy spending time with, and clearly like their personality, then yeah romance kinda becomes the next step. There’s a lot of cases where dudes go in with a crush and try to do the friend thing first with romance on their mind off rip, but there’s plenty of cases where it does start out just friendship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’ve developed crushes on girl friends of mine, and I’ve asked out lesbians. But that’s never been the same girl. I feel like there’s a level of disrespect if you’re well aware someone’s definitely not into you and you still try to push for it lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Never heard of somebody “fix”ing themselves in that context before.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 21h

Really? I’ve had guys “offer” (threaten) to rape me because obviously I just “haven’t had good dick yet” and that’s the problem. It’s truly crazy the way some guys I had been friends with for years switch up after they confess. They’ll be well aware I’m not interested and then yell at me in a parking lot because I won’t sleep with them to “make sure”. Just makes me sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Agreed. It’s just weird and shows me that you don’t actually care about me. If you did you’d respect me and how I feel

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