
I feel like the “wifey type” still has to be hot, they just gotta have more to them than that. Someone I’m hooking up with casually doesn’t need to be a super interesting person, or someone I can see myself spending every day with forever. The casual fling JUST has to be hot, The One has to be both hot and compatible with me on a personality level. There’s just a lot more of the former in the world.
My cracking type is more expansive than my wifing type. For ex., idk yet if I'd want to marry someone outside my race for a number of reasons. I could change my mind on that eventually but in the mean time, why not enjoy what the world has to offer? I also probably wouldn't marry a man, ideally, but I enjoy sleeping with them and dating them.