Anonymous #1 21w

How can’t you be bad at text ?He need to figure how to text so I we can talk cause I want to ask him out . If this goes on for any longer I will block him in person and on social media

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Anonymous OP 21w

Tbh just do ft or something easy fix

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Anonymous #1 21w

We just small talk on the way to class and in class . I only asked for his Instagram recently. Ft is too much I don’t want to scare him even though I think he likes me a lil

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Anonymous OP 21w

He’s probably overthinking what he’s texting. Just ask him out then!

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Anonymous #1 21w

He sounds interested but just like a bad texter or overthinking his texts.

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Anonymous #2 21w

Few things he said . I getting the feeling I’m getting played 🥲 I don’t like it

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Anonymous OP 21w

Well he definitely sounds interested! He’s just probably overthinking his texts, like I said 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous OP 21w

You should offer to show him the best ones to watch with a smiley face, lol.

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Anonymous #2 21w

For hour . I over think but that much . He clearly doesn’t like me

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Anonymous #2 21w

That a old text so I missed my chances there

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Anonymous OP 21w

Well some people do overthink that much. And an hour isn’t even that long, especially when you have other things going on in your life. No, if he’s sending those texts, then he clearly likes you!

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Anonymous #2 21w

I meant hours as In 4 hours he will text 2-4 text a day

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Anonymous OP 21w

Funny you say you’re getting mixed signals, because you’re giving mixed signals in these comments 😭 “I want to ask him out.” “If this goes on for any longer I will block him in person and on social media.” Do you like him or do you not?

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Anonymous OP 21w

4 hours still isn’t that long. He’s texting you multiple times a day with texts that clearly show interest. Like I said, he’s probably just overthinking his texts or not wanting to come across as overeager or too much.

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Anonymous #2 21w

I do like him but he isn’t consistent. He will text around 1 time for about 5 min 8pm then finally respond to my reply around 12am-1am. How am i going to get to know him more

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Anonymous OP 21w

By asking him out in person is how!

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Anonymous #2 21w

I’m giving mix signals cause I don’t want to be vulnerable and get played at the end of the day

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Anonymous #2 21w

I don’t know him much. I wanted to be friend for but then ask him out

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Anonymous OP 21w

Well still, make in person plans seems like the way to go.

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Anonymous #2 21w

I only know he doesn’t work in the library on tues or Wednesday but I went into today he wasn’t there .

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Anonymous OP 21w

You could try texting to make in person plans. He gave you a clear invitation to come show him the best ones to watch. Or just ask if he wants to meet up to study for your class or something.

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Anonymous #2 21w

I’m scared I need to be more sure he like me cause that was a joke

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Anonymous OP 21w

What was the context?

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Anonymous #2 21w

We was talking about childhood shows . He said his mom was strict so he didn’t watch many shows. But also I was talking about get my own place since our college doesn’t offer dorms

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Anonymous OP 21w

Doesn’t seem like a joke though. Definitely seems flirty with the smiley face, and like a playful invitation to ask him out.

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Anonymous #2 21w

We just started talking in class not too long ago . Before that we would just say hi only

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Anonymous #2 21w

I don’t want to rush and ruin thing

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Anonymous #1 21w

i agree. he’s probably not really interested in them. everyone’s on their phones nowadays and sending texts isn’t hard. if he wanted to he’d be responding, especially if he’s watching their stories

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Anonymous #3 21w

Thanks

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Anonymous #3 21w

If you actually read through the comments though, he’s been responding to texts multiple times a day though with texts that clearly show interest.

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Anonymous #2 21w

It was twice a day . It ok I’m the class end in a week I’m going to block him

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Anonymous OP 21w

You said 2-4 times a day. And why would you block him if you like him? That just tells him you aren’t interested and shuts the door on him.

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Anonymous #2 21w

He only reply if I text . It’s a waste. Sorry for bothering you

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Anonymous OP 21w

Do you only text when he replies?

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Anonymous #2 21w

Yeah I don’t want to be clingy

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Anonymous OP 21w

Oh okay yeah, well he probably also doesn’t want to be clingy. How long after he texts do you typically reply?

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Anonymous #2 21w

Today it was 1 hour 15

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Anonymous OP 21w

You need more confidence in yourself. You’re not bothering me, and I extremely highly doubt that you’re bothering him!

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Anonymous #2 21w

I have bothered guys who clearly just pretend to like me just for attention. This feel like it . Just found out he had a gf a month ago and recently broke up with her

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Anonymous OP 21w

Okay so he’s not even taking all that much longer to reply than you are. He could just be getting busy and not even see your text for a bit.

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Anonymous OP 21w

Okay, well that’s a them problem if they are pretending to like you for attention, not a you problem. It’s possible he’s not entirely over his girlfriend, but if he broke up with her, it sounds like he’s looking to find someone else and is interested in you.

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Anonymous #2 21w

It a my problem cause I then feel so stupid for going out my way to show you I like you . This all doesn’t sound good

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Anonymous OP 21w

I just mean it reflects poorly on them that they pretended to like you for attention, not on you for thinking they liked you when they were pretending to.

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Anonymous #2 21w

Yeah but does terrible work to my self esteem where I cant trust people to like me

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Anonymous #2 21w

Just shoot your shot, the worst he can say is no and it's not the end of the world if he does. He's not worth all this overthinking

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