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Why is my boyfriend not romantic/ doesn’t plan dates?
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Anonymous 7w

You didn’t tell him you wanted it. Why don’t you just point him in the right direction and tell him what you would like for him to start doing and be patient?

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Anonymous 7w

May be feeling checked out, or like ur drowning in each other already, or maybe he feels a lack of engagement from you and is reciprocating it. These things take a careful balance. Romance is a way to draw closer to someone; that means there has to be enough daylight to make that meaningful (not much, just have your own lives), and also enough fondness that he enjoys romancing you. When I’ve tapered off over time it was usually that last thing: she appreciated it less and I liked her less

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Anonymous 7w

He don’t fw you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

We have had several conversations about effort and I have told him in specifics what I need/ want and he hasn’t provided

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You two aren’t compatible.

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