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is is wrong i don't wanna date someone who is unemployed. not even like because im a gold digger or whatever genuinely bc its a red flag if u don't have a job. if you're a full time student that's an exception but otherwise
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Anonymous 9w

No as long as ur employed too. Unless I marry a hedge fund baby odds r I will be the provider when I meet my person but them working too would still count for something

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Anonymous 9w

No this is completely valid. Having a job is a sign someone is grounded, has concrete goals and knows how to support themself, and is generally a more independent person

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Anonymous 9w

You’re a gold digger. This economy is cold 💩! About 15-20% of the population are currently unemployed. Most at no fault of their own. It’s not a “red flag” to be a victim of their circumstances

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Anonymous 9w

Yes I’m the same

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Anonymous 9w

If you have a job, no

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Anonymous 9w

Please don't say the U word without a trigger warning or censor it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

of course i'm employed lol and even if he makes more than me im not gonna stop working

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Yah then it’s not wrong of u to feel that way. U know ur standards and ur standing by them. That’s respectable

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 9w

why would i have this requirement if i was unemployed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You’d be surprised how unreasonable people can be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

There r lots of girls out there who want an employed man so they don’t have to work.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

it's weird i do want to work bc maintaining a job is something that requires a bunch of positive character traits.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I'm not a gold digger. If i was then i'd only go for men with high paying jobs, but i don't really care abt what they do. They could literally have a part time job at a grocery store or something. If they are trying to get a job then that's okay too. It's more about not putting in any effort whatsoever.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Thats not what you said tho… you could then say: “I wouldn’t date someone WILLINGLY unemployed”. Ik it may saline the same to some people but I think it matters

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Um okay

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