Ask Men on Yik Yak | I cried in front of my bf, then he broke up with me the next day. Do men not like emotional vulnerability like that?

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Ask Men 1w

I cried in front of my bf, then he broke up with me the next day. Do men not like emotional vulnerability like that?

Anonymous 1w

a secure and good man will not make you feel crazy for your emotions (as long as you're genuinely not crazy)

Anonymous 1w

wtf he did u a favor

Anonymous 1w

Why were you crying?

Anonymous 1w

depends on context. if you were crying after getting caught cheating or something then it doesn’t matter how vulnerable you were being. If you were just opening up some it may have overwhelmed him if he’s less emotionally mature than you

Anonymous 1w

Nah. He’s just emotionally immature or stunted

Anonymous 1w

He was just a bad person

Anonymous 1w

Y’all asking why she was crying, you have to understand that at some parts of a woman’s cycle she can cry for no reason at all it’s just her estrogen making her emotional even if there’s no real cause. It can feel silly and ridiculous but this is just something you have to accept especially if you ever want a woman to be the mother of your children, hormones are a crazyyy drug.

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Anonymous

vangogh 1w

I’m not crazy, he just was super turned off by me being upset then left - idek why or if that freaks men out or what

Anonymous

OP 1w

its just him, not the entirety of men

Anonymous

#4 1w

Haha true

Anonymous 6d

Yes the fuck they do that’s incredibly normal?? You don’t have to “work through your emotions to figure out they you’re crying in the first place” when you KNOW oh yea I just dealt with a death in the family 2 weeks ago, and didn’t shed a tear. but now that I’m PMSing, I dropped a hat and I can’t stop sobbing. It’s not hard to figure out, oh yea this must be a product of hormone fluctuations! It’s not that deep bro 😂😂you just have zero fucking grasp of how emotions work on men vs women

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Anonymous 6d

And yes lmao😭😭?? Is this really news to you!!!?? It’s absolutely normal for women to cry multiple times a week every single month. Studies show women cry about 5.3 times a month

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Anonymous

#9 6d

Yall a family friend died 😭. We were together for a year and I’ve never had to break down like that

Anonymous

#9 5d

Everyone has different reactions to all sorts of physical effects. There are diseases that can cause depression, and some people get strong emotional responses to basic colds and stomach bugs. As a kid I used to spontaneously start crying while a stomach bug was coming on (before physical symptoms happened), which might have just been a side effect of the pathogen.