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Any tips for letting a guy down easy after a first date? Went out yesterday but I really don’t see it going anywhere and he just sent a “I had fun yesterday” text so idk how to respond
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Anonymous 3w

Best to just be clear and concise. Be honest about not feeling the spark, but be respectful and tell him you appreciated his time

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Anonymous 3w

doesnt need to be much. something like "thanks for taking me out yesterday but i dont see a future with us" is fine

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Anonymous 3w

Be up front and to the point, how he reacts is up to him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m more thinking should I even bother saying I had a good time? I don’t want to be rude but I also don’t want to sound confusing if I say both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well did you have a good time and it just felt more like friends, or did you not have a good time?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No I mean i had a good time with what we were doing, i just didn’t super enjoy his personality but that feels really mean to say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Just say something like “I had a good time, but if I’m honest I don’t feel we are super compatible. It was nice meeting you and I wish you the best”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Ok fire thanks sm 🙏

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