Ask Men on Yik Yak | I’m a virgin and something that’s always given me anxiety about sleeping with someone in the future is I’m not sure I’ll know what to do as the woman to make it enjoyable for my partner. Is there a way to be good or better as the woman?

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Ask Men 17h

I’m a virgin and something that’s always given me anxiety about sleeping with someone in the future is I’m not sure I’ll know what to do as the woman to make it enjoyable for my partner. Is there a way to be good or better as the woman?

Anonymous 17h

Good news (for you at least) is that most of the pressure is on the man to pleasure you and not the other way around, so as long as you’re you, you’re unlikely to disappoint him much (as I am also a virgin I can’t help you in terms of how to be “better” in bed but I can at least say don’t overthink it)

Anonymous 14h

Biggest advice is that no matter what you do, it’s mostly likely going to be a little awkward, and that’s more than ok and perfectly normal. Just try to communicate how you’re feeling to your partner and check in with them too and you’ll be golden

Anonymous

#2 14h

Something also very important is that you should never feel like you have to do something you don’t want to. If you say no to something, they should respect that, and vice versa