Ask Men on Yik Yak | real question: why doesn’t my bf like when i touch his butt? like all he says is “i just don’t like it” but i need to know if there is an actual reason cause ik this is the case with most men. like is it a stigma? (to clarify i respect his wish not to)

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real question: why doesn’t my bf like when i touch his butt? like all he says is “i just don’t like it” but i need to know if there is an actual reason cause ik this is the case with most men. like is it a stigma? (to clarify i respect his wish not to)

Anonymous 15w

It’s most likely a stigma, I personally don’t like it because it feels gay

Anonymous 15w

Yall crazy. I respect it cuz it's your ass and you can't let people touch it if you don't want them to. But damn it's a woman 😭 Fym it's gay. She has a vagina and I got a dick, where did the gay part come from

Anonymous 15w

It feels emasculating

Anonymous 15w

I mean, at first I’d feel embarrassed since I haven’t had anyone touch down there sexually before, and definitely wouldn’t like it in public/around others, but otherwise I wouldn’t mind it. Maybe he has had something happen to him involving his butt or he’s insecure about it.

Anonymous 14w

The thing is, you don’t need to know if there’s an ‘actual’ reason. If he says he doesn’t like it, that is the only reason you need, and it’s a completely valid one.

Anonymous 15w

I'm not letting her touch my ass cuz I don't want that but that don't make it gay. You gotta have two guys or two girls for it to be gay, that's just simple maths. Now I think 2 grown men sharing a bed is gay... a woman touching ur ass as a man can't be gay