also, if she does do something g like this, she was not worth your time anyways! if yall did end up going out, imagine the shit talking her friends would hear abt you, the secrets she’d expose, etc. when i was single, the most shit talk i’d do abt a match was if they were all “woe is me” abt dating or were dry (bc that was most common) only time i called a dude a creep was when our convo was so normal then 11pm hit and he started sending black screen snaps with aggressively sexual undertones
They rlly should’ve worded that differently because if a guy came up to me asking me out or telling me they find me attractive but I don’t feel that way about them I’d let them know nicely. Now if it was another story where they got upset or started to stalk me or wouldn’t leave me alone then yeah I would call them a creep but I wouldn’t call them that unless there was a valid reason 💀
the only time i called someone a creep after he approached me in public was when after i said no he FOLLOWED ME OUT OF THE GYM, tried to confront me outside when i was literally walking away already, yelled at me when i walked past him because he had ran to stand in front of me & grabbed my arm to try & stop me. when i finally got him tf off me, i ~to myself~ muttered that he was a creep.
Omigosh yes! There are incidences of gentlemen being kind of scary sometimes. One approached me outside the gym at night, and I said hello (thinking he was just friendly or lost). He then proceeded to (with heavy eye contact and breathing) ask what the color of the inside of my vagina was. 😢 I tried walking away and he briefly followed me. That gentlemen made me uncomfortable - but as long as they don’t do stuff like that’s it’s all dandy!
I am so sorry that happened to you - it’s kind of odd that incidents like these seem to happen more at gyms? But yes - I’ve also had gentleman approach in a very sweet way, and I’d never talk badly about them or look down on them! Personally, I’m honestly always flattered and surprised that anyone would ask me out in the first place! 😭🤙
I’m so sorry - I spent a lot of time with my grandmother growing up and have retained her speaking mannerisms. 😭 In that sort of dialect, is more so used as a way to neutrally refer to men in general. I think we just grew up in different areas. 🤙 But no, these folks are awful and it can come across as a self-report if they claim that every woman that approaches them calls them creepy.