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Ask Men 12w
Why do guys reject women, change their minds mysteriously, then get upset when we don’t want to be with you after you’ve hurt us? Genuinely curious cus it’s not even just the bad guys
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Anonymous 12w

This just happened to me with a girl… it not just guys😭

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Anonymous 12w

Idk ask those guys cause I’ve never done this

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Anonymous 12w

Only time I did this was when she came on to me way too strongly, she made too many moves too quickly, I got weirded out and backed out, and then when I came back wanting things a little slower she turned me down, which was disappointing. She has a new man now though, they seem happy, so it worked out well for her it seems.

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Anonymous 12w

i used to be that guy and it was bc i had commitment issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I assume they think that the feelings are still there?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

This has happened to me even worse actually. We went out, she didn’t want to go out again, months later she started being super clingy and expressing strong feelings, but I was skeptical. When I finally came around and tried to talk to her again she ghosted me. Played with me like a fiddle

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Well I can’t say even worse I guess I don’t know your experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Tbh it’s my bad. She’s kinda known to be crazy, and really what convinced me to try again is the fact that she is stunningly beautiful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

No this literally exactly what happened with me😭 except shorter time frame but still, she initiated things, wanted to start talking, then randomly ghosted, unadded everywhere, (was talking to another guy) other guy treated her bad so she added me back and said how sorry she was and how she messed up and literally exact thing happened again , was talking constantly thn again just stopped.

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