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Why are so many men homophobic SPECIFICALLY towards feminine gay men
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Anonymous 3w

Masculinity standards are forced so hard on men that they are extremely uncomfortable with femininity in themselves and others. it’s why toxic masculinity exists and why men call even other straight men f*ags for doing anything perceived to be feminine.

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Anonymous 3w

Not understanding it and being upset by not understanding

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Anonymous 3w

Nobody cares that they’re gay, they care that they’re annoying and make being gay their entire personality. It’s similar to a woman who makes her boobs her entire personality, or the fact that she hooks up with a new guy each weekend every conversation topic.

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Anonymous 3w
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Anonymous 3w

Scared they could possibly be attracted to them

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Anonymous 3w

it goes against the norm. also i think someone who acts overly feminine is equally as annoying as someone who acts over macho

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Anonymous 3w

Because that shit’s gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

But I would say men and women are more homphobic to lgbt men unfortunately, just often in different ways

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Men are also socialized to believe that masculinity is equated with strength and femininity is weak. Which also perpetuates a lot of sexism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

This take is so fucking stupid LMFAO to you any gay man who is slightly feminine is making it “their whole personality” when they’re just naturally flamboyant be so fr.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Since I presume you act masculine, that means u make being straight ur entire personality right? Just based on ur own logic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You asked a question then got mad at the response to said question. That’s on you bro. People don’t dislike them because they’re gay they dislike them simply because they dislike them as a person. That’s not homophobia that’s just people not liking others😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Just not liking others because they are GAY is homophobia, argue with a wall

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not some red pill “i hate women” dumbass that you’re hoping I am😂 I just have my own hobbies and I don’t care if everyone likes me. I’m sure I have people that don’t like me too but you asked why so I answered brodie

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