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Honest question, am I a gold digger if I just want a guy who matches my usual lifestyle? I grew up with money (very grateful) and now have a high paying job. Is it really bad if I want someone who matches or exceeds my lifestyle?
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Anonymous 3w

Well if you only want them for money yes, but if it’s because you want security and want a partner with a high drive towards goals like that cause you find it attractive then not really

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous 3w

I agree with what #2 is saying, if you’re solely in it for money then yes. But given you already have money and want someone with a similar drive and lifestyle I don’t see an issue with that.

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Anonymous 3w

So why exactly do you want someone who matches your lifestyle

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Anonymous 3w

I think it’s reasonable to want to date somebody that has around the same income as you, for both genders. If you want somebody that’s making more then ur starting to push into that zone of gold digging fs

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Anonymous 3w

No you’re not, hello get a man that can afford the life you already can pay for on your own🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 3w

yea that’s my intention but for some reason guys don’t care about the reasoning

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