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how do i ask a guy out as an ugly girl (don’t say just ask bc that’s not working)
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Anonymous 9w

My advice is focus on just making great first impressions. As guys, we love when a girl is confident, funny, and brings a fun vibe. Maybe your already doing that and if so the right person will come to you but if not all good just try your best to let your personality rly shine through for him and exude confidence

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Anonymous 9w

Honestly, just keep going and hope for the best if you’re up for it

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Anonymous 9w

Can you describe yourself? Different types of changes will be needed to change who you attract

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Anonymous 8w

Just because it’s not working doesn’t mean it’s the wrong answer. Rejection is a part of putting yourself out there. If 5% of ppl want you, ya gotta shoot your shot 20 times. If 1%, 100. It’s not a riddle with a right answer. There’s no secret cheat code that can trick a guy into wanting you if he wouldn’t otherwise. But if you don’t, you’ll never know

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Anonymous 9w

What kind of answer are you looking for? You cant ask someone out without asking, so are you looking for the exact combination of words to use, or some other strategy to use to convince him nonverbally?

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Anonymous 9w

Wear something or do something or change something so u don’t feel ugly

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Anonymous 9w

If you wronged someone would you apologize?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Just answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

no

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 9w

i don’t feel ugly but i know guys don’t find me attractive. i like how i look most of the time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Well, if you apologize for something or are just more down to earth in general, that’ll make at least 80% of guys fall for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

oh i meant to say yes, i read it wrong. but why does this correlate? that’s just basic manners ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Ugly is a very subjective thing. Even if the majority of men don’t find your face attractive you don’t have to burden yourself with the label of ugly. There will always be guys who are obsessed with you

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 9w

which is why i want to know how to attract those guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You’d be surprised how many girls refuse to take accountability

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Anonymous 9w

Become his friend first and put your best foot forward. Basically you want him to see you in a great light emotionally and attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 9w

i should probably lose weight which i’m doing but it’s not my main priority. i’m eating heathy and staying active but nothing too crazy. i also can’t change my race or face structure

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

i’ll try that, thank you🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Given that last part you said I’m gonna assume you’re a minority. Depending on the part of the country you’re in that could put you at a disadvantage (I’ve experienced the same feeling) Losing weight is due more to eating right than staying active. You don’t have to run 5 miles every day or shit as long as you’re not eating McDonald’s for lunch.

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 9w

at home i’d say i have more opportunities but at school its a more rural area so its more difficult. and im in a calorie deficit and i dont eat fast food (bc i cant afford it💔) and my job is 80% walking + walking to class. but its not my main priority because there’s more to life than being skinny yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Go to places and spend a lot of time around people who share interests with you. The better you get to know someone, the less preoccupied you are with their appearance. Once you’ve built a good rapport u can ask them to get coffee or somethjbg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

The biggest thing that helped me lose wait was not drinking in my calories and like switching from beer and soda to water

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

I think the best way I can think to describe it is if a girl is unconfident that she doesn’t even value herself, why would someone else? But if she does value herself, like she knows herself better than anyone, so it’s like we want her then, so just be confident

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

thank you ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

idk, what ever anyone wants to advise

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Well, ok there is. But it won’t necessarily get you a boyfriend; just laid. And you’ve probably already worked that out

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

i only drink water except for alc. i switched to tequila with no chaser so hopefully that helps for now

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