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So what does it mean if he’s not ready for a relationship and can’t commit rn but says I can talk to other guys even though it might make him sick to his stomach. But he’s not talking to other girls
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Anonymous 20h

It means you gotta move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Cause he’s saying no to a relationship and telling you to find someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

No we meet weekly and go on dates

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Your post says he's not interested in a relationship and he thinks you should date other people. Those are your words.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

But we meet every week and go on dates and do stuff. That’s what he wants for us and wants us to continue doing but he’s not ready for a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Girl. He is TELLING YOU he is not ready, and you should date someone else. You should listen to him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

Ok so you’re obviously not guy. I wanted a guys perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

He enjoys your company. He does not want to be your boyfriend. If you are wanting him to be anything more than what you are currently, you are setting yourself up to be disappointed.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I'm a man and you need to move on I'm sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

No I’ve started exploring actually. Is it that he doesn’t want to be MY boyfriend or that he doesn’t want to be a boyfriend in general

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

I am literally a dude. But tell me what you think it means then.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Could be either, you’d have to ask him. But if you want him to be your boyfriend, he’s saying no either way, the distinction doesn’t really matter.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

It does tho

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