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I need some male perspectives on this, my ex boyfriend (24m) never once initiated anything sexual with me even if I was basically naked in bed with him spending the night… I just wanted to see if I’m justified in thinking this was off behavior?? Idk
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Anonymous 15w

Were you ever clear that you wanted sex?

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Anonymous 15w

Either you are ugly or he is weird

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Anonymous 15w

Bro could just be ace

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Anonymous 15w

Definitely off behavior I’m not the best looking girl but even when I stink and I’m sweaty from work my bf will still wanna do stuff so definitely something wrong with him and not you girl

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Anonymous 15w

he kinda weird for that. maybe he was genuinely ignorant, awkward, or not horny tho? either way really weird

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Anonymous 15w

kinda strange, sure, but not necessarily a bad thing by itself. Might’ve previously had bad experiences and was scared of causing another, or feels too awkward to ask for consent without more engagement. I would say this would be a thing to ask him if you were still together, but if it’s over that’s probably not appropriate.

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Anonymous 14w

Some people get shy/nervous, it has nothing to do with you

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Anonymous 15w

Crazy I was in a situation like this but she told me she wasn’t ready

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Anonymous 14w

did you talk with him about it when yall were together? he may be waiting for marriage for religious/personal reasons or asexual or something

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Anonymous 14w

Never ever ever initiated? He was either going through something or wasn’t sexually into you for whatever reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

Did you try moving?

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